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“I Don’t Need A Man” – I’m Calling BS on This Catch Phrase Among Divorced Women

Posted on September 21, 2016 by delaine No Comments
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  (first published in 2012) Over the past three years since I got divorced, it is by far the most popular statement I’ve heard from women: “I don’t need a man”.  And it’s been said with passion.  Power.  Ownership.  As if it’s been earned. And I’ve heard it all over the place: from dinners with girlfriends…to […]

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Watch Out! Dating A Separated or Newly-Divorced Man

Posted on September 20, 2016 by delaine No Comments
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  He says his marriage is long over.  He says he’s ready to date again.  But would it be wise for you – a woman who is ultimately seeking a serious relationship – to throw caution to the wind and dive right in? I’d definitely say, “No way.” Getting involved with a separated man usually […]

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I Was Snared By A Catfish: Beware The Warning Signs

Posted on September 19, 2016 by delaine No Comments
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A male friend of mine said the other day that he thinks people have to be “pretty stupid” to be snared by a catfish (in case you haven’t heard this term it means “an online phony”).  He said that the signs and warnings are obvious — so really, if someone gets duped, shame on him/her. […]

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Dating After Divorce: Ladies, Do You Need An Attitude Tune-Up?

Posted on September 18, 2016 by delaine No Comments
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Dating after divorce can be way more frustrating than it ever did back in our twenties.  Work, stress, kids, exes —  not only are you dealing with extra complications, your selection in good men seems dismally small.    Perhaps it’s time to fine-tune your expectations – and tune up your attitude. Update #1: Focus on being the […]

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Getting Naked For The First Time After Divorce

Posted on September 18, 2016 by delaine No Comments
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After being with same person for many years, the idea of having sex with someone new can feel both exciting and downright terrifying — almost as much as losing your virginity!  But rest assured, your fears and jitters are normal and common.  Let’s climb on top of them right now. Fear: “But I’m older, saggier and […]

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Not-So-Obvious Signs Your Partner Is Cheating

Posted on September 18, 2016 by delaine No Comments

Some signs are easier to spot when it comes to cheating – like sudden disinterest in sex or spending longer hours at work or the phone/ computer. But others are more subtle; elusive. Trust your intuition and observe closely: 1. Taking more showers Taking extra showers could be “ prep work” for a rendez-vous’ or, […]

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7 Alternatives to Divorce

Posted on September 18, 2016 by delaine No Comments

If your marriage is unhappy and unfulfilling, divorce is not the only option.  Numerous alternatives are at your disposal, which can help preserve your family in the long term.   How these alternatives are structured depends on how flexible you are as a couple are, as well as how great your desire is to be together. […]

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Qualities to Look For in a REAL Dominant

Posted on September 18, 2016 by delaine No Comments
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Many women are actively seeking a Dominant in their private lives as a result of having read Fifty Shades of Grey or The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom.   But ladies, beware:  any man can sport black leather and  a flogger and call himself a Dom.  You need to know how to distinguish the […]

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Dumped for Another Woman? Take Your Power Back

Posted on September 18, 2016 by delaine 1 Comment

Being cheating on and dumped for another woman feels like being thrown into a deep black hole with no way out.   Even just the thought, “My husband left me for someone else” is a so deflating; crushing – it reeks of “you weren’t good enough.  He had to find better and she is.” But such […]

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Financial Domination: An Unusual But Very Real Fetish

Posted on September 17, 2016 by delaine No Comments

This past week, my friend Deanne was chatting at length with a younger man on a dating site when he suddenly hit her with an “unusual” request:  “Every month I’d like to give you money,“ he wrote.  “You can spend it on yourself or any way you want.  We can start out small but maybe […]

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Female Desire: Is Sexual Boredom Inevitable?

Posted on September 17, 2016 by delaine 1 Comment
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When I look back on my relationship history – which includes a few healthy long-term relationships as well as a seven-year marriage that ended in divorce, I see one rather unsettling common denominator underneath them: I eventually got “bored” with the sex. Now by “bored”, I mean I experienced a dramatic drop in sexual desire.  […]

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Dating Games Women Play That Don’t Work

Posted on September 17, 2016 by delaine No Comments
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Some games women play while dating may seem wise and to be based on nuggets of truth — but at the core, they serve to justify deception instead of building authenticity and love; they’re similar yet worlds apart.  Let’s turn the games into good advice:   Game #1: Don’t return his calls and he’ll want […]

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