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“I want a sensitive man.” No, You DON’T!

Posted on December 25, 2016 by delaine
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“I want a sensitive man.”  It’s become a popular mating call by women these days, especially among women on the heels of a breakup or divorce.  Oftentimes their former partners were, as one divorcing woman put it, “as expressive as a piece of cement.”  Thus, the “sensitive man” —  a guy who’s in touch with […]

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It’s Sometimes Hard to Be Present With The Children During Divorce

Posted on November 25, 2016 by delaine
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Like most parents, I love my kids more than life itself.  And since I got divorced, I’ve worked really hard to make sure that they not just adjusted, but thrived. But I’m human…far from perfect.  And sometimes life circumstances have gotten the best of me or worn me down. Consequently, my children have seen me crying. They’ve […]

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Unfortunately, An Ex Sometimes Requires The Strong Arm of the Law to Behave

Posted on November 23, 2016 by delaine
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Dealing with an ex can sometimes feel like dealing with a child: You give and give and give — you explain things kindly over and over again. Yet still he/she doesn’t get it.  And although it’s unfortunate and not at all what we want to do, sometimes we need to take legal action in order […]

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First Time Without Kids: “My heart is so heavy”

Posted on November 17, 2016 by delaine
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From the archives: Three years post-divorce, 2011 I received this message from a newly-separated woman on Facebook today: “My ex-husband took the kids for the first time this weekend….and my heart feels so heavy. My “free time” just reminds me how alone and directionless I am.” I read her message with a tight chest:  I remember… Three […]

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“Edging” – An Amazing Sexual Technique That Makes Women Go Wild

Posted on November 8, 2016 by delaine
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Men, have you heard of the term “edging” before?  Do you want your woman to experience the most earth-shattering orgasms of her life, and look at you with stars in her eyes? Then make sure you are well-versed and practiced at “edging.” Edging is an artful technique that involves a man (or woman) bringing his/her partner […]

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Anger & Bitterness: Have Your Walls Become Your Prison Since Divorcing?

Posted on November 2, 2016 by delaine
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Written during Year Three post-divorce; 2011 Do you ever wonder if you’ve become “hardened” as a result of your divorce? By “hardened”, I don’t mean “stronger.”  I mean “encased in bitterness and distrust” towards the opposite sex. Cause it happened to me — and I didn’t even realize it.  In fact, to this very day, […]

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The Value of a Sharp, No-Bullsh** Girlfriend & Mentor During Divorce

Posted on October 31, 2016 by delaine
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  Sharp.  Astute.  A woman with a “no bullshit” attitude. This is the kind of mentor/girlfriend I believe all divorcing women need in their corner during a divorce.  Let me qualify that by saying it’s not the only kind of friend we need. We need those who make us laugh and forget, those who are […]

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Are You Dating Another Version of Your Ex?

Posted on October 28, 2016 by delaine
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Are you dating someone since divorcing who’s bringing you down?  Are you ignoring the warning signs that this person is  WAY too much work — kind of like your ex-husband/ex-wife was?  Has it ever crossed your mind that perhaps you’re so programmed to putting out relationship fires and compromising who you are and what you […]

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On Becoming A “Woman With A History”

Posted on October 27, 2016 by delaine
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There’s a powerful feeling growing beneath my skin.  It’s been pushing through me and into my consciousness over the past year.  It speaks of love, sorrow, adventure, and intensity. It stems from having shared, loved, believed, lost, marrying, giving birth, trying again, trying harder, aching and celebrating. It speaks of gradual surrender and letting go, […]

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Revenge, Retribution & Compensation: Black Box – The Gift of Betrayal

Posted on October 27, 2016 by delaine
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Black Box — The Gift of Betrayal: A Q & A with author COLLEEN SHANA “You’ve fucked with my husband, Skank. Now, it’s time to fuck with me.” Author Colleen Shana grins and shakes her head as she reads this line from her new book, Black Box, The Gift of Betrayal.  “I know, I know…  My […]

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Travelling Spouse: Prevent Your Relationship From Nose-Diving

Posted on October 27, 2016 by delaine
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  When a spouse regularly works out of town, his (or her) return trips home usually spell stress and chaos on the home front.  Over time, resentment can easily grow around issues like downtime, chores, parenting and (lack of) sex.  Here are some tips and insights to keep your relationship on track. Downtime: He needs […]

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