Stockings & Corsets & Stilettos, Oh My! Halloween Can Help Couples & Divorced Women Own Their “SEXY”!

Posted on October 28, 2014 by delaine Facebooktwittergoogle_plusredditpinterestlinkedinmail

divorced woman halloween, costume, role play, find sexyHere’s a question for you ladies — ALL of you ladies, whether you’re divorced, single or partnered: When was the last time you took the time to REALLY sexy yourself up?

I don’t mean “look pretty.”  I mean SEXY.  I mean wearing the kind of outfit and undergarments that make you half-giggle (for the audacity) but  tingle from head to toe with mischief.

With Halloween being just around the corner, let me remind you all — men and women alike — that it’s the perfect occasion  and EXCUSE to ignite some fire into your confidence and/or the bedroom.  Guys, if things have been a little sexually “lacking: or “boring” with your partner as of late, this could be a great opportunity to turn things up.

When was the last time you went to a costume shop and tried on different outfits?  Cause man oh man, there’s a heck of a lot of sexy stuff to choose from and for all different body types!  Seriously — when, or have you ever, even tried?

So oftentimes as women, we forget — or never allow ourselves to discover or own — that “sexy/slutty vixen” part of ourselves.  I’m very familiar with many of the reasons we use: life is busy, we’re tired/ too fat/ not in the mood/ it’s not important/ we deem it inappropriate, silly, too much work etc.

But ladies, if you’ve never worn a pair of lacy stockings or high-end corset or a wicked pair of stilettos, you are denying yourself one of the powerful delights of being a woman.

OBVIOUSLY, if you’re planning to attend a party, what you will wear will depend on the venue (do I even have to say this?).  But this doesn’t mean you need to dress up like a doughnut either, c’mon!

Some couples — and singletons — use Halloween as an opportunity to try out a completely new venue, like a sex club.  Yes, you could wear that corset and black miniskirt and not stand out at all — you will, however, if you dress like a goddamn doughnut!  You could also very easily wear a mask… and,no, you don’t have to actually participate in anything if you don’t want.

Alternatively, you could create your own party at home — with a role play scenario just for two.  Nurses, secretaries, school girls, goth girl — you name it, put some thought into it, and you can try it.

Sound like too much work?  Are excuses not to flooding your brain already?  Let me remind you that feeling sexy comes from anticipation — the female brain needs to be massaged, titillated, and to wonder…

Guys, take this idea and run with it.  NOW is the time to get her “wondering”.

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