Category: Moving On

Revenge, Retribution & Compensation: Black Box – The Gift of Betrayal

Posted on 10/27/16 by delaine
books on revenge adultery cheating husband

Black Box — The Gift of Betrayal: A Q & A with author COLLEEN SHANA “You’ve fucked with my husband, Skank. Now, it’s time to fuck with me.” Author Colleen Shana grins and shakes her head as she reads this line from her new book, Black Box, The Gift of Betrayal.  “I know, I know…  My […]

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Shifting Perspective on Married Couples: Lies, Secrets & Masked Sexual Desires

Posted on 10/24/16 by delaine
truth about marriage, affairs, hidden passion, sexual desire, cheaters, no sex

From the archives of I am Divorced Not Dead; originally published in 2009. I was sitting in a packed school auditorium amidst row after row of devoted parents when “it” happened. I looked at the adults around me — husbands and wives sitting side-by-side, some silent, some holding hands, and the odd mom or dad […]

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What I Admire & Appreciate About Men

Posted on 09/26/16 by delaine
men are different to women, divorce, sex and dating

I’ll admit that for a couple of years post-divorce, I wrote most of the male species off as knobs. Luckily,  the healing hands of time, combined with lots of inner work and formal  training in gender differences with Dr. John Gray, dulled my anger and allowed a renewed level of appreciation and respect to flourish. […]

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Dumped for Another Woman? Take Your Power Back

Posted on 09/18/16 by delaine
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Being cheating on and dumped for another woman feels like being thrown into a deep black hole with no way out.   Even just the thought, “My husband left me for someone else” is a so deflating; crushing – it reeks of “you weren’t good enough.  He had to find better and she is.” But such […]

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What If The New Boyfriend Wants to Have a Child of His Own?

Posted on 02/21/16 by delaine
boyfriend wants baby, divorce choices, tough question

From the archives of I am Divorced Not Dead: Originally posted in 2009; fresh to divorce! While I was married, I gave birth to three kids in three years and I can honestly say their early years are a blur to me; life was CRAZY.  And since divorcing, I’ve sworn I wouldn’t have another child. “My […]

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