Category: Dominance and submission

“Edging” – An Amazing Sexual Technique That Makes Women Go Wild

Posted on 11/08/16 by delaine
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Men, have you heard of the term “edging” before?  Do you want your woman to experience the most earth-shattering orgasms of her life, and look at you with stars in her eyes? Then make sure you are well-versed and practiced at “edging.” Edging is an artful technique that involves a man (or woman) bringing his/her partner […]

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First Time “Entry”: Slow the H*** Down, Tonto!

Posted on 10/25/16 by delaine
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Today I want to briefly talk about an important moment during sex that you may not have analyzed before: the moment when a man enters a woman.  My inspiration for this blog?  A recent experience my divorced girlfriend had with her new lover. His “entrance” made her eyes roll alright … in annoyance, not with pleasure! […]

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Questions and Cautions Around Dominance & submission

Posted on 10/02/16 by delaine
real life dominance and submission, finding a Dominant

With the film Fifty Shades Darker slated to hit theatres this Valentine’s Day, I’m sure many women will be gung-ho to explore Dominance and submission (D/s). And this quite concerns me: for I know — as a memoirist whose D/s story was adapted into a film — that Hollywood takes poetic licence when telling a […]

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Qualities to Look For in a REAL Dominant

Posted on 09/26/16 by delaine
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Many women are actively seeking a Dominant in their private lives as a result of having read Fifty Shades of Grey or The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom.   But ladies, beware:  any man can sport black leather and  a flogger and call himself a Dom.  You need to know how to distinguish the […]

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Financial Domination: An Unusual But Very Real Fetish

Posted on 10/27/15 by delaine
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This past week, my friend Deanne was chatting at length with a younger man on a dating site when he suddenly hit her with an “unusual” request:  “Every month I’d like to give you money,“ he wrote.  “You can spend it on yourself or any way you want.  We can start out small but maybe […]

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