You’ve probably heard women refer to it – this concept of having sex like a man. But what exactly does that mean? Why is it challenging for women to do? Yet why are more women doing it? Leaving judgements aside, let’s take a closer look: Meaning of SLAM: Some women think that having sex like […]Read more
I think it’s safe to say that the majority of men have strong aversions to women who have “slept around” when it comes to selecting a wife or serious partner. They’ll say, straight up, such women are “just for fun”, but not the kind they’d “bring home to momma.” And the reasons men use to […]Read more
From the archives: 2010 Since separating from my ex-husband two years ago, I haven’t slept with many men; in fact, less than a handful. Oh – let me clarify: I mean actually sleeping with men. This has been the case for two reasons. One, I haven’t wanted to sleep beside most of them. And […]Read more
I was standing beside a divorced soccer mom, watching our kids’ game, when she suddenly blurted: “Do you realize I haven’t had sex in over three years?” I turned to her, mouth open. “You’ve got to be joking.” She shook her head. “No… I’m afraid not.” “But how? Why? Look at you — you’re gorgeous…hot! And […]Read more
This past week, my friend Deanne was chatting at length with a younger man on a dating site when he suddenly hit her with an “unusual” request: “Every month I’d like to give you money,“ he wrote. “You can spend it on yourself or any way you want. We can start out small but maybe […]Read more
Originally published in 2011 As my divorced friend Ashley filled me in on a first date she’d just come back from, she was practically squealing. Not only was her date funny, intelligent and very much a gentleman, she was super physically attracted to him. “I kept reminding myself to stop staring at his chest,” she […]Read more
Stockings & Corsets & Stilettos, Oh My! Halloween Can Help Couples & Divorced Women Own Their “SEXY”!
Here’s a question for you ladies — ALL of you ladies, whether you’re divorced, single or partnered: When was the last time you took the time to REALLY sexy yourself up? I don’t mean “look pretty.” I mean SEXY. I mean wearing the kind of outfit and undergarments that make you half-giggle (for the audacity) but […]Read more