Category: Sex

The Grand SLAM: *Sex *Like *A *Man

Posted on 09/17/16 by delaine
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You’ve probably heard women refer to it – this concept of having sex like a man.  But what exactly does that mean?  Why is it challenging for women to do?  Yet why are more women doing it? Leaving judgements aside, let’s take a closer look: Meaning of SLAM: Some women think that having sex like […]

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An Imagination Game for Men: You, A Woman, & An Island

Posted on 09/16/16 by delaine
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I think it’s safe to say that the majority of men have strong aversions to women who have “slept around” when it comes to selecting a wife or serious partner.  They’ll say, straight up, such women are  “just for fun”, but not the kind they’d “bring home to momma.” And the reasons men use to […]

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Sleeping With A Man After Divorce

Posted on 09/04/16 by delaine
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  From the archives: 2010 Since separating from my ex-husband two years ago, I haven’t slept with many men; in fact, less than a handful. Oh – let me clarify:  I mean actually sleeping with men. This has been the case for two reasons.  One, I haven’t wanted to sleep beside most of them.  And […]

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Can Going Without Sex Become A “Bad Habit” After Divorce?

Posted on 11/16/15 by delaine
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I was standing beside a divorced soccer mom, watching our kids’ game, when she suddenly blurted: “Do you realize I haven’t had sex in over three years?” I turned to her, mouth open. “You’ve got to be joking.” She shook her head. “No… I’m afraid not.” “But how? Why? Look at you — you’re gorgeous…hot!  And […]

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Financial Domination: An Unusual But Very Real Fetish

Posted on 10/27/15 by delaine
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This past week, my friend Deanne was chatting at length with a younger man on a dating site when he suddenly hit her with an “unusual” request:  “Every month I’d like to give you money,“ he wrote.  “You can spend it on yourself or any way you want.  We can start out small but maybe […]

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When To Have Sex: Which “Side” of You Decides?

Posted on 11/17/14 by delaine
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Originally published in 2011 As my divorced friend Ashley filled me in on a first date she’d just come back from, she was practically squealing.  Not only was her date funny, intelligent and very much a gentleman, she was super physically attracted to him.  “I kept reminding myself to stop staring at his chest,” she […]

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Stockings & Corsets & Stilettos, Oh My! Halloween Can Help Couples & Divorced Women Own Their “SEXY”!

Posted on 10/28/14 by delaine
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Here’s a question for you ladies — ALL of you ladies, whether you’re divorced, single or partnered: When was the last time you took the time to REALLY sexy yourself up? I don’t mean “look pretty.”  I mean SEXY.  I mean wearing the kind of outfit and undergarments that make you half-giggle (for the audacity) but […]

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