Category: The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom

“MINE” — A Shiver-Inducing Snapshot of the D/s Dynamic (Dominance & submission)

Posted on 10/29/16 by delaine
Movies books like Fifty Shades, Delaine Moore's The Secret Sex Life of a SIngle Mom

I LOVE this video.  I really really love it, and I’ve watched it probably 50 times over the past two years. In my opinion, this work by Alvaro de la Herran for GQ Spain, beautifully captures the beauty and eroticism of the D/s connection and dynamic — much more so than anything  portrayed in the […]

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On Becoming A “Woman With A History”

Posted on 10/27/16 by delaine
wise divorced women

There’s a powerful feeling growing beneath my skin.  It’s been pushing through me and into my consciousness over the past year.  It speaks of love, sorrow, adventure, and intensity. It stems from having shared, loved, believed, lost, marrying, giving birth, trying again, trying harder, aching and celebrating. It speaks of gradual surrender and letting go, […]

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Shifting Perspective on Married Couples: Lies, Secrets & Masked Sexual Desires

Posted on 10/24/16 by delaine
truth about marriage, affairs, hidden passion, sexual desire, cheaters, no sex

From the archives of I am Divorced Not Dead; originally published in 2009. I was sitting in a packed school auditorium amidst row after row of devoted parents when “it” happened. I looked at the adults around me — husbands and wives sitting side-by-side, some silent, some holding hands, and the odd mom or dad […]

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Questions and Cautions Around Dominance & submission

Posted on 10/02/16 by delaine
real life dominance and submission, finding a Dominant

With the film Fifty Shades Darker slated to hit theatres this Valentine’s Day, I’m sure many women will be gung-ho to explore Dominance and submission (D/s). And this quite concerns me: for I know — as a memoirist whose D/s story was adapted into a film — that Hollywood takes poetic licence when telling a […]

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Qualities to Look For in a REAL Dominant

Posted on 09/26/16 by delaine
Thinking businessman

Many women are actively seeking a Dominant in their private lives as a result of having read Fifty Shades of Grey or The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom.   But ladies, beware:  any man can sport black leather and  a flogger and call himself a Dom.  You need to know how to distinguish the […]

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Naked Before The World... In a Lifetime Movie!

Posted on 09/20/14 by delaine
dee-book-high-res

When I was going through the absolute hell of divorce and infidelity, I remember people offered supportive words like, “Hang in there, things will get better” and “You never know what great things might lay around the corner.” But my God, my God, my God (shaking head)…I never imagined my road would eventually lead to […]

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